Thanks Everyone
Thank you everyone for the emails or comments or texts… regarding mediation on Tuesday. The outcome wasn’t exactly what I had hoped for, but I feel it’s the best I could do under the circumstances. I’ve emailed some about it and posted it on my private blog. If you have not been able to read it I also have it posted on this blog, but it is password protected. If you’d like to read it please email me for the password. I am having to protect some of my posts because apparently my ex reads my blog. I don’t care really because everything I have ever written about him is true and he knows it. But I don’t want him to keep saying I am alienating him from “his” kids because I’m not. He does that himself. The kids don’t read my blog anyway!! But whatever…
Thank you again everyone. I have awesome friends.
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Hugs.
.-= yvonne´s last blog ..Onnie-ology =-.
I have an issue with one parent accusing the other of “alienating” them from their children. I say this because recently I have worked with Special Masters and Guardian Ad Litems on several cases where one parent is claiming that the other is alienating the children from them. So I am getting on my soap box and shouting some facts.
IF the kids read your blog….IF you actually said anything to them about your ex that he accuses you of saying……You would only be alienating them from YOU!
The parent being alienated is the parent who is doing something to make the kids alienate from them.
This is backed up by YEARS of research evidence. If you bad mouth your spouse then your kids will side with the one being bad mouthed, not with the bad mouther. They feel defensive when a parent is attacked. If you don’t want your kids to be alienated from you then change your behavior.
*gets off soap box*
So Tori, I KNOW that you are not the one alienating. It is because of you and Sei that the kids are the kind, Rad kids they are. You rock!! I am qualified to make this statement. Love you.
.-= Klin´s last blog ..She Knows Me So Well =-.
Tori,
As a child that comes from a home where I went “back and forth” and now and adult who sees the result of parents who fight over their children and the damage it can do, I know that you and Sei are doing the absolute best that you can to provide a stable positive home for your children to grow up in. I’m not sure of everything that has happened, and you certainly don’t owe me an explaination, but I can see from this blog and your postings how much your family means to you. I wish you and your family the best, and hope that this all works out in everyone’s best interest…especially your kiddos.
K